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How To Be More Vulnerable In A Relationship: 8 Tips

Know your triggers

The first step to learning how to be more vulnerable in a relationship involves exploring your inner world.

Express your needs

After allowing time to check in with yourself, labeling your emotions, and discovering everyday anxiety triggers, start expressing your needs.

Accept the risk

Unfortunately, vulnerability comes with a risk. You might get hurt. That’s why many are afraid to express their needs and emotions.

Adopt ways to cope

The act of being vulnerable with yourself and within a relationship may stir up some painful memories or discomfort.

Acknowledge your part

Relationships take two to tango. So, for the relationship to grow, both parties need to acknowledge their mistakes.

Mindfully listen

Mindfulness is the gift that keeps giving. It allows us to show up presently, exuding more compassion and awareness to understand our emotions and the emotions of others.

Heal your attachment

Your fear of getting hurt, people-pleasing, and abandonment stems from your childhood trauma and resulting attachment patterns.

Schedule regular check-ins

You’d be surprised, but penciling time within your busy weeks to talk openly and honestly is key to effective relationships.